Top Ten Technology Tips When You Are Going Through A Divorce

In today's digital age, smart phones, iPads, laptops and cloud computing have become part of the vernacular. Part of the allure of these devices is the ability to synchronize them and access data such as email and calendars. Cloud storage allows you to also access text messages and other data that is stored in the devices and then uploaded into the virtual "cloud" for easy access from any computer.

Let's look at some of the technological traps to beware of when going through a divorce. 10. Beware of the iCloud. If you use iCloud or any other web-based service to backup your phone, laptop or other device, remember that your iCloud account may be linked to a shared family iTunes account.

If your spouse has the password, he or she can login into iCloud from any computer and access email, texts, calendars and any other information you choose to store on the cloud. 9. What's in your browser history, If you are planning to leave the house and the family computer behind during the divorce proceedings, you should consider your browsing history.

Did you research divorce lawyers, Do research on property distribution, All of the pages that you viewed on the family laptop are stored there for your spouse to see. 8. The iPad you left at home may still be connected to your iPhone. If that's the case, your calendars, email and some text messages may be viewed on the iPad.

If you are going to leave the iPad in the hands of your soon-to-be-ex, you should remove your personal information from the machine. 7. Location services on your phone or other mobile device can be used to track your whereabouts. Location services applications that allow you to locate a missing phone, laptop or other device can also be used to locate you. 6. If you get a new phone and give the old one to one of your children, make sure to restore it and remove your data before they take it to your ex's house.

Maybe you got the iPhone5 and gave your iPhone4 to your teenage son. When your son takes the phone to your ex's house over the weekend, he or she can look through your emails, phone records and text messages and learn your whereabouts and even potentially access privileged communications with your attorney.

Before you hand over your phone to you child, it is wise to restore it to the factory settings to erase any personal information. 5. Look out for automatically stored passwords. Oftentimes, email passwords and other passwords to sites like Facebook and Twitter may be stored on the family computer.

If you do not logout of the family computer, your personal pages may be accessed by your spouse if he or she retains the computer when you separate. 4. Look out for automatically stored credit card information as well. If you are separated and you do not want your ex to be able to use your credit card for purchases, be sure to logout of the account and/or remove the stored credit card information. 3. Nothing you post on the Internet is private.

2. Stalking: there's an app for that. New iPhones come with an app called "Find My Friends." This app and others like it allow you to link to other friends and once you link, you can find each other's exact location. Many people accept requests from friends and acquaintances without thinking twice.

But if your estranged husband's best friend is connected to you on one of these apps, your husband can find out where you are. If you use these apps and are going through a divorce, review your friends list and consider deleting anyone who might provide information to your soon-to-be-ex. 1. It bears repeating: Change Your Passwords.